So 2015 is coming to an end and I have been reflecting on the type of year I had.  This year was similar to being on a roller coaster ride for the first time. I went through this year without resolutions or goals (as I prefer to say), which explains why it was quite a bumpy ride. I didn't know what to expect. I just went with the flow, I just winged it.



The good that happened in 2015 is that my school year went quite well. I received honors in Academics and achieved great results that I'm proud of, so matric 2016 here I come. I was also blessed with the opportunity to be a prefect at Amanzimtoti High School.

Swimsuit - Truworths Flower crown - Cotton On

During this year I developed close friendships with wonderful people who  helped me learn and discover a few things about them and myself and I thank God for them.


My church, Higher Life Church International is also growing and we hosted our first conference this December and by the grace of God everything went well.



I am still going through the process of becoming the God Girl that God wants me to be. And it has been a difficult process during the year of 2015. My relationship with Christ was a bit shaky throughout this year as I didn't make it my number 1 priority the way I'm supposed to. I always felt incomplete,  like something was missing,  a sense of emptiness. I used to always feel guilty or condemned for not reading my bible enough or not spending enough quiet time with God. But lately I realised that regardless of what I do or don't do He still thinks about me and loves me unconditionally because of His beautiful grace.



"No matter what I've done
No matter where I've been
No matter how I fall
You pick me up again
You have removed my shame
You take me as I am
You call me justified
Now I am covered by your grace"

Covered by Israel and New Breed


I can say that throughout 2015 I have been showered with the grace of God in every area of my life and that is why I am still standing.




With 2016 approaching I will take with me the lessons I have learnt throughout 2015 and I will definitely write up goals that will help guide me throughout the following year.

In 2016, my best is yet to come.



Remember God loves you and so do I. 

TLegO...

Christ, family, church, school, grade 11, exams, food, studying, notes, Oreos, formulas, future choices, love, coffee, decisions, desires, dreams. ''Aich, too much to deal with.''

Don't we all feel overworked and overwhelmed by life at some point? Well I guess I'm just growing up. John 15 verses 4 and 5 say that we cannot be fruitful and progressive unless we remain in Christ and apart from Him we can do nothing. Trying to handle everything that life throws at you with your own might ain't that easy, trust. I've learnt that involving Christ in all that you do will cause you to be fruitful, happy AND at peace.

Hey there, it has been a while since I have posted (almost three months, but hey who's been counting.) Lately I have been preoccupied with school stuff, being work and sports (that's grade 11 for you) and I never had the chance to make time to update you all. But aren't you glad to know I'm still alive and better as ever?

Earlier when I started blogging I had a few guys ask me what my blog is all about. I said I share my views on what's trending in the fashion world but I usually lean on the feminine side of things. I was then requested to post something for the gents.

And I thought I would share some tips on choosing the perfect outfit to wear to your Matric Dance.

Gentlemen, before you can go out shopping you need to have some inspiration and know what you are looking for. Search and browse the internet for some ideas. Pinterest is the best place to find inspiration from.

The most important thing when shopping for a suit or a formal outfit is the fit of the outfit. The way the suit, trouser or blazer fits your body determines the authenticity of your look. Don't think that what looks good on David Beckham will look good on you, know what works for you.

Keep in mind that a Matric Dance is a formal event but not too formal like a wedding Wear something that you will be comfortable in and that you can move around in. Make sure that your shirt is on point as you will be spending most of the night with your jacket off.

The black tux is always a classic and simple route to take, you can never go wrong with it. Pair it with a crisp white shirt, classy bow tie or skinny tie.

 But if you are a risk taker and you would like a bit of colour I suggest that you keep the palette simple and go for colours like navy or midnight blue, burgundy or even emerald green.








 To make it more subtle separate it with tones of black or brown. You can pair the blazer with a black pant, just to neutralise things.


Another trend gents have been rocking nowadays is wearing a different blazer with black trousers. The blazer can be coloured or printed, depending on how outgoing you are.

One last thing, pay attention to details. Your tie, pocket square, belt, watch and shoes are what will highlight and complete your look.







And don't forget your number one accessory, your date. Make sure that she looks just as snazzy as you do.

I hope this will help you when it comes to deciding what to wear on your special night.

Remember God loves you and so do I.

P.S - Confidence is key...xx

TLegO...

It's 2015 !!! Many of us have this whole "new year, new me" thing instilled Iin our minds.  I kind of disagree with that concept because if I really wanted to change some things about my life I would have done it in September '14 and not only wait for 2015.

I guess this year I'm just going to better myself not change myself. Yeah I actually like that. I'm going to become a better me not a different me.